She's Just Not That Into You if she isn't paying attention to you.

If a guy likes a girl, typically he is gonna try to spend time with her. Makes sense.

But what if she doesn't want to spend time with him?

It happens.

So here's the deal guys. If you are trying your hardest to hang out with a girl that you think is pretty cool, but she is not reciprocating, she is probably just not that into you. That includes her not focusing on you in a group setting, not responding to you when you make witty jokes, or just flat out not making eye contact with you.

A girl likes to be noticed. She likes to be made to feel special. To feel beautiful. But not by everyone.

There is no reason why we like certain people better than others. No formula to figure people out. Sometimes though, as much as a girl likes to be noticed, she just doesn't want to be noticed by that other person.

And when she doesn't want to be noticed, she doesn't pay attention. So when it seems like she is ignoring you, it means she's just not that into you.

And since we are on the brink of this subject, let's just jump right into the thought that girls play hard to get.

That is just stupid.

Most girls will at least treat you like a friend if they are even thinking that they might be interested in you. (Not avoid you to make you like them more).

Now wait, stop getting your hopes up that the girl you like treats you politely and therefore she is into you... We'll cover that later. For now, go back and re-read the first part of this, and honestly think if she is trying to make an effort to be nice to you or get to know you. Not sure? Then she probably isn't.

And to reiterate: she isn't playing hard to get. That really is not a common occurrence.

And if she is, then she is working under the assumption that she can manipulate a guy to feel the way that she wants. And what guys wants to begin a relationship with anyone based on manipulation?